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Accompanying your child to university
When my child left home, a strange tranquility set in, transforming everyday life into an unusually calm space.
You might feel the same way, and that's perfectly normal.
Faced with this silence, it becomes essential to redefine your routine.
Maybe this is the perfect time to revisit a hobby you've been neglecting, or to turn the empty room into a project you're passionate about.
This will not only fill the void, but also give new meaning to this phase of your life.
The time has come!
Dear Mom, the time has come: your child is about to leave for university. I’m experiencing this moment for the second time, and I’d like to share my thoughts with you.
It’s both an exciting and emotional time, and I’d like to share with you how we can navigate this transition together. This blog is for all moms who are going through this important stage. By sharing experiences and practical advice, the aim is to support you through this period of change, ensuring that the move to university is a positive experience for the whole family.
Preparing for departure
I still remember the day I had to help my eldest pack, 5 years ago. Since pride and anxiety are intertwined, just like me, you might feel a little lost. It’s only natural! Think about organizing a little going-away party to celebrate this big step. It helps to mark the moment in a joyful way, and gives your child and the family a chance to recognize this big step.
Managing Vacuum
When my child left home, the silence sometimes became deafening. You might find the house strangely quiet. It’s important to reorganize and redefine your daily routine. Maybe it’s time to take up that hobby you’ve been putting off, or rearrange his room for a new project.
Maintaining the Connection
Don’t make the mistake of thinking that your child is now “old enough” to fend for himself without your support. Independence is important, but staying connected is crucial. I advise you to set regular times for video calls or text messages to check in without being intrusive. This maintains the bond and shows that you’re still there for him/her.
Supporting our remaining brothers and sisters
Don’t forget the siblings who stay at home – in my experience, this is the trickiest part. They may feel a sense of loss or jealousy. I encourage maintaining the spirit of brotherhood by organizing regular family activities to ensure that no one feels left out.
Managing Occasional Returns
Homecomings during vacations or special weekends are precious moments. Make sure these moments are relaxing and warm. Avoid bombarding him with questions about his studies; instead, let the conversation flow naturally.
Conclusion
Dear Mom, watching your child take flight is a real mix of emotions. By remaining proactive, empathetic and open, you’ll make this transition easier for the whole family. Remember, every stage in your child’s life is also a stage in your own. Enjoy these moments of growth and change, and know that you’re not alone.
